My darlings, sometimes, the struggle is real. Sometimes you just can’t seem to get into your characters heads. And sometimes, you just plain don’t like them! Here’s how I solve that problem.
Tag Archives: Empathy
Morning Thought: How Much Research is Too Much Research?
Morning Thought: How Much Research is Too Much Research?
Morning Thought: Unlikeable Protagonists
The dilemma of the unlikable protagonist, is solvable, even in erotica, and this is how!
Morning Thought: Words Have Power
having lots of naughty fun together. It’s about why they got together in the first place. It allows you to form connections and enables you to allow, for a moment, a complete stranger to feel seen. It gives validation.
Morning Thought: Talking Dirty 101
Dirty talk is something that a lot of people are afraid of, but you don’t have to be. Here’s a down and dirty guide to the basics of how to write erotic dirty talk.
Morning Thought: Let Love Guide You
No one is pure hatred. No one. So why would you make that the sole thing that defines your characters?
Morning Thought: You are NOT your Characters, nor are you their Kinks!
The difference between reality and make-believe is imagination. As FICTION writers, we use it all the time.
Morning Thought: Research is the Key to your Sex Scene
Write what you know? Well, what happens if you don’t have experience with the kind of sex or body you’re writing about? Let me explain…
Morning Thought: Dealing with Sad Chapters
We will all have them. Some will be longer than others and some will be far more sad than expected, but each are chapters. They will pass and they aren’t the whole of our lives.
Morning Thought: What to focus on in a Sex Scene!
Writing erotica’s not as easy as describing what goes where and it’s certainly not a simple genre, but here’s a tip that’ll set you apart from the rest!