My darlings, sometimes, the struggle is real. Sometimes you just can’t seem to get into your characters heads. And sometimes, you just plain don’t like them! Here’s how I solve that problem.
Tag Archives: Motivation
Morning Thought: How to get Started in EROTICA!
Want to get started writing erotica but you aren’t sure how? I’ve got you covered. Here are my top tips for breaking into the erotic writing scene!
Morning Thought: The Key to Erotica
What would you say the key to erotica is? The Characters? The plot? The fact that there having sex? Well, my darlings, over my years of writing, I’ve found one thing that transcends all the rest, and it’s something that so many people miss.
Morning Thought: How Are YOUR Lenses Tinted?
The way we see the world is, without exception, tinted. We have our own particular filters that we see the world through, and so will our characters.
Morning Thought: People are like Batteries
Breaks are important. you are not an infinite source of energy and you do have to take time to recharge. You have a choice, and you can decide where to spend your energy and how much of it you want to give.
Morning Thought: Have a Little Patience. Your Work IS Worth It!
If you want to make it as a commission writer, then patience is a necessity. You CAN do it, it just takes time.
Morning Thought: Owning your Desires
We’re all unique. We all desire different things, whether it’s a hard spanking from a dominant woman or a long, passionate kiss by the beach that connects two souls in an intimate embrace, we’re all special.
Morning Thought: The Experience of ‘Pantsing’
Letting your characters lead your story can be a strange experience. You often find yourself heading in directions you never expected, or writing things that you never believed your brain was capable of coming up with.
Morning Thought: My Writing Style
If you’ve ever felt like you ‘have’ to do certain things to be a writer, or if you ever tried ‘plotting out’ your story and felt like you can no longer write, then try ‘pantsing’. You don’t need to plot everything out in order to write a good story. Here’s how I do it.
Morning Thought: The Power of Lists
To work efficiently, you have to know what you’re doing. This is especially true if you’re doing something as time consuming as writing – even if that writing’s erotic – not all sex scenes are over in two minutes, after all. So here’s a piece of advice I was given a long time ago that’s transformed my life.